
Speed Dating Etiquette 101: Essential Tips for First-Time Daters
Jun 26
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The Ultimate Guide to Speed Dating Etiquette for Beginners
Thinking about dipping your toes into the world of speed dating? You're in the right place! Speed dating is an exciting, stress-free way to meet new people IRL. Most people are just as nervous as you are and are likely experiencing speed dating for the first time too. Here’s your essential guide to mastering the basics and making the most of your first speed dating event.

Arrive On Time (But Relax!)
Arriving promptly shows respect and lets you ease into the environment, but don't stress. Events are designed to feel welcoming and chill, not rushed or rigid.
Dress Comfortably, But Make an Impression
Wear something that makes you feel confident yet comfortable. You’re there to be yourself, your best self, so choose an outfit that reflects your vibe.
Be Present, Phones Down
Give your dates your full attention by putting your phone away. Real connections happen when you're fully engaged, not distracted by notifications.
Keep Conversations Light and Fun
Prepare a few easy-going conversation starters like hobbies, favorite local spots, or fun weekend plans. Keeping it casual and positive helps ease nerves and encourages natural conversation.
Respect the Clock
Speed dating moves quickly for a reason, so respect the time limits. It helps keep the energy up, ensures fairness, and gives everyone an equal opportunity to chat.
Be Honest and Kind
Authenticity wins every time. Be yourself, be honest about your interests and intentions, and always show kindness, even if you don't feel a spark.
Follow Up Thoughtfully
During the event, use the Match App to navigate interactions and afterward select who you'd like to connect with. Mutual matches are released two hours after the event ends. A quick, genuine message referencing your conversation helps solidify the connection and keeps the momentum going.
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